Random Incident and Thoughts in AMTS

Even after these many years I still travel in AMTS bus. Yesterday evening I was going home from office in a bus. A girl was sitting besides me at window sit. I was looking at the running Ahmedabad from window and accidentally I read an sms in that girl's cell phone. Of course, I know it's bad manners. It's really bad manners, but it wasn't intentional and I never read nor support such practice of reading private stuff of anyone intentionally. Now coming back to the topic, rather than talking about good or bad manners stuff. The SMS was “I Miss You.” As and when, girl read that message she started calling on same number again and again, but the next person was just not answering the call and every time call gets disconnected, and the girl keep calling back.

And I started thinking about different stuffs related to same situation like she was sitting so calmly, suddenly SMS come now she became restless. I shouldn't be judgmental who can be on next side of phone, but whoever is at the next side shouldn't message her. If you are missing someone and you know that person might not be pleased with your expression of missing, then why to bother anyone? And, if you are really missing, then why are you not answering the call? I mean if you have started a talk, then just take it further and if you just do not want to discuss the why the hell do you start a conversation? I have also met such people who just start an idiotic topic and we start confronting or get eager to know more they just say “leave it. I don't want to talk on this.” In such situations, I feel completely pissed off. I used to say like if you were really not interested to finish the topic, then why the hell did you started?In past, I have also fought on such situation with many of friends and family. But now I have became bit conscious with these kind of people. The are just attention seekers and that's also may be unintentionally. Because they do not do anything with intention, but the put hand on paining vain just to actively involve you in an idiotic conversation which used to make you feel to bang your head in a wall. I have banged it often in past But with experience I have learned the best way to deal with such people is just ignore and do not give any kind of importance to them. If some say, [verbally or by gesture] “let it be, I just don't wanna talk on this.” The best ever reply can be “Okay.” Try this out and the next person will tell you the whole story one by one even if you are not interested to listen

Now coming back to original story, when I was thinking all these in between one more SMS was received by the girl “sorry.” But girl keep on calling and finally the next person answered the call, and girl just said like this, “What is this? What do you mean by mistake? Every time you make same mistake? Next time don't say this even in mistake.” Cell phone hung up. And, I exclaimed “wow! My queen of battle. My tigress.” Every girl must learn this thing. Don't think like let it be or what can I do? If you are not liking something just raise your voice against it. If you will be quite with thinking it will be ok with time then you are making a big mistake because people used to take “silence as Yes.” So Girls, be brave and start taking your stand.
Well I am also like that, I used to raise my voice against something pinching my soul, no matters, who is next to me. I do take stand for the one I think is right at the moment. If I am wrong I also do have guts to accept my mistake, apologies and take initiative to correct it. Everyone must think and act so.

Ok it's again too long post so I think time to say bye bye for now. I will catch you later soon hopefully. This is R J Aashaka signing of for now C U Sabba kher. And as Diwali is at corner “Happy Diwali”

Why not Writing so Frequent?

Hey there,

It's Ash again here. Yeah I'm not frequent poster as I was before but what to do? I used to have to many things in to do list. Apart from that there are too many topics so I used to think like what to write and what to not? So just can't decide the topic to write on. sometimes also feel to share many things but the past few years taught me to "be a closed book, as people never value open books" and in past where I was writing here, I thought no-one is reading it except few selected friends & as per the length of my posts, they might even don't dare to read my posts but then Google told me that there are many visitors who are reading your posts. I felt like what to share what to not :)

Sometimes I feel like write whatever I want to as I was doing before but then I remember the time which says out of 10 people who are asking you about you or your story. 7 are just curious to know your story, 2 want to gossip about it and hardly 1 person cares about it. So better to be a closed book rather than being an open book which people just tear. So I just drop an idea of writing everything :P

At the same time the traffic stat here shows the people who visits & read my blog actually don't know me so whatever I write I will be an anonymous girl. So even if they meet me someday down the street, they just never get to know it's me - the girl whose blogs they used to read ;) :D But what if someone who knows me will read this? Nothing in today's word people neither understand words nor silence, they just understand what they want to so never mind who is reading what? And aivey  I am too unpredictable, even i can't predict me and my mood tomorrow :) so why to worry about anyone else so write what I like to because ITS MY PLACE :P :D

So as you can see years & time just flew away but m still as it is a girl next door who still likes to play with kids, who like to sing out of her heart, who has been practical after experience of life but still tears rolls out sometimes on emotional scenes [and i wonder i know its just a movie y my eyes r wet?] I like to work seriously and i like to just lost in my dreams & imaginations. I like to plan surprises and speak what i feel but bit carefully as I learnt that if u like or love someone tell them straight as expression of love is very important but if u dislike or hate someone just don't tell that to even yourself because disliking creates pain and u know what my motto is be happy and try to make others happy :)

I think written too much for today. funny thing is i came to write about something else and written something else :D In between a friend talked with me & planned awesome surprise for another friend. Feeling excited as I just love to plan surprises :)

Ok bye for now will come soon with something new at same place. Till then be happy & try to make others happy. good night. good bye c u sabba kher. this is R J Aashaka signing off.

Navaratri - Holly & Most famous Festival of Gujaraties

Hi there,

We Indians are found of festivals. So we used to have many festivals. Few are national and few are state wise. By today Navaratri festival is started. This festival is of 10 days. Yes you have read right words. 10 days long festival it is. And you can say it's festival of night. :) Basically Navartri belongs to Gujarat. Gujarat is state of India. Navaratri is also known as "Norata".

Nav Durga

Basically in Navaratri people used to devote their prayers and devotion to 9 forms of ma Durga, namely, Ma Shailputri, Ma Brahmacharini, Ma Chandraghanta, Ma kushmadha, Ma Skandhmata, Ma Katyani, Ma Kalratri, Ma Mahagauri, Ma Sidhdatri. MAny of you might belongs to India but never heard these names. So if you want to confirm or read then you can check a hollybook, namely, "ChandiPath", which has mentioned names of all these Goddesses and the holly stories connected with each Goddess. I don't know is it available or not in English. But Gujarati and Hindi versions are there. As per the belief, it says in these 9 days it is good to read "Chandipath" and few people and few writers also say that if you devote Goddess and read Chandipath in proper way you can get some superstitious powers. [Though there is no proofs on this and i also don't believe in it :) ] People also says that during these 9 days you can win hearty of Goddess and get whatever you want. You can show your devotion by meditation, reading holly books, singing  & playing garba of Goddess. :)

Holly Story of Navaratri:
There are many holly stories are related to Navaratri. But I will mention 2 most famous. 1 is of ma Durga. As per belief there was a devil and Ma Durga fought with her for 9 days and and 9 nights and then killed  her. These 9 days are known as "Navaratri" so in devotion of ma Durga people play Garba and celebrate victory of Ma Durga.

Ravan Dahan

1 more very famous belief is that these 9 days are those 9 days when God Shri Ram fought with devil Ravan to get his wife Mata Sita back and get this earth out of atrocity of Ravan. And on 10th day he won the battle and killed Ravan. So on 10th day known as "Dashera" people of India burn the statue of Ravana.That is known as "Ravan Dahan". The victory of good over bad :)

Few people have fast in Navaratri. My mom was not drinking water or having food during these 9 days when I was kid. But as I grown up, for her health I force her to have water and also dinner. But she still keep fasts.

In older time people used to get together in evening time. Sing aarti "devotional song" for Goddess and then play garaba which is pure devotion. Those garabas were known as sheri garaba means street garaba. But now people changed :) Now the culture of sheri garaba is almost lost or I would say died. Now people goes to party plots. Means a big ground kind of place where the play garba [form of dance] on rhythm of  big orchestra and singers. Singers usually sing silly bollywood movie songs rather than actual cultural garba. and people usually dance in different form of garbas. People actually take coaching for Garba playing before norata. People charge to teach it. [how sad]. Now most of the people play garba just like they want to dance. They play it to win some prices. Almost the essence of  devotion is lost :( In older time people used to wear traditional Gujarati clothes which is known as "Chaniyacholi" for female & "Kediyu" for male in regular days also i guess.  In navaratri they used to wear more fancy traditional gujarati clothes, But now, tradition put aside and people started enforced fasion in it. they used to wear jeans, tops extra in normal days. And just for sake of fashion they waste so much of money in buying chaniya cholies and kediyas which they are going to wear just for 9 nights. Even in that fashion get in so there are sleeveless and ... kind of chaniyacholies. Well everyone has their own choice of course. It's their call. But still at few corners of Gujarat people are there who still play garaba for mataji "Goddess" it's not for dance or fashion. It is still for devotion. And I am proud that I belongs to that community where we belongs to such way of devotion :) Still there are places where people celebrate Norata in old traditional way without bollywood song and big orchestra. They play garaba on rytham of "Dhol" and believe me it is real fun to play garba on devotional Goddess garba songs and rytham of Dhol. There are few villages where circles of male and female are separate. Not because they are orthodox but because they find it as part of our rich cukture. respecting each othe. It's not restriction but it is modesty :)

What is Garba?
Now for those who don't know what is Garba. Garba is kind of dance. You can say one of the most famous folk dance of Gujarat and each Gujarati knows it. In any celebration of a Gujarati weather it is a groom procession or baby shower or birthday celebration or whatever real Gujarati will play garba. Gujaraties can play garaba on any tune on any song because we used to find beats of Garba in any music :D There are types of Garbas like be tali [2 claps], tran tali [3 claps], dodhiyu, ras, tetudo, hinch, amd so many. I can't write in words what does that mean or how to play :) You have to visit Gujarat to see & experience that. Traditionally people used to make a circle and as per the beat of Dhol [musical instrument] play any 1 form of a Garba.

Playing Garba on Dhol has much more real fun than playing it on noisy orchestra. May be many people wont agree on me but that's ok :) When I was younger, studyinh in school and college I used to play garba for whole night. We have played garba since 10- 11 PM to 4 - 5 am everyday. Then next day also go for class. I never bunked any :) Sometimes skin of my feet just get peeled. Even gravels just hurt badly and sometimes it start bleeding but the passion of Garba was so much I just play in & on. I have sung Garbas & I have danced on Garbas :) But now as life became bit busy and also don't have any company for laying garba so not going to play since few years in Navaratri. But the passion is still there as being Gujarati & will be there always :) I used to satisfy my passion in wedding & other celebrations by playing garba there :) And now Garba is so very famous it used to get played not only in other states of India but also in abroad countries. :) :)

Well I think I have just written too much and get almost all information on Navaratri & Garba is out. So Play garba for devotion this time & Happy Navaratri to all of you. Jay Mata di..

This is R J Aashaka signing off for today will come back soon with more talks at same place till then c u sabba kher, chau :) ;) 

Many questions & answers of past years

Hey there,

Is there anyone that side? Do u remember me? J Yeah it’s been long. It’s been quite long I have written here. Almost 2-3 years I guess.  I still remember the day when I started this blog and writing here. I used to write till midnight, it was really fun. But then many things changed and one of them was my habit of writing here.

So wont you ask where were I? Don’t you wanna know what I did in past years? J The situation of I left writing here and now just back to write again reminded me a song of bollywood movie where audience used to ask Mohini – the heroin of movie. “kaha thi aap?” and she replied “me kar rahi thi kisi ka intezaar.. jisase me karti hu pyaar aur jisase karti hu minnate bar bar”. For those who doesn’t understand Hindi. I just written there is a famous bollywood song & one of my fav of course. Audience asked the heroine “where were you are?” and heroine replied “I was waiting for someone. The one whom I loved. The one whom I pleaded again and again” and the song starts. Well not talking about the song and talk about me J

I was busy in building my career and my identity. Somewhere my building my dreams J I might chasing the things and people the happiness and so many other stuffs. Just been busy in many personal and professional stuff. Well the past 2-3 years proven to be fruitful of course. It given me many experiences, made me more better than yesterday. Made me manager from a team leader J   Made me good daughter & so much which can be feel and just can’t expressed in few words. Concluding those years I am able to say I find myself and built a very good base of mine.

Now coming to the question. Why I left writing here?

I answered it in short that I became very busy. Though I’m still very busy. But the other thing was like when I was writing before that is just for my sake. I was writing because I liked to write. I liked to share my views. I have never written anything by keeping anything in my mind or targeting someone or to get more readers or subscribers. No never. Whatever I written and I do write is just because I like to write. And when I was writing in past I though no one is reading my blog. I’m the only one who is writing this and few friends with whom I shared direct link are reading this or may be they are also not reading it as I might not be so favorite of them or they might have more important people in their life to know rather than me myself J As I never targeted this blog for getting audience I never did any special stuff to get it in high rankings as I just never wanted this to be famous. So being an SEO & knowing the SEO strategies I can say I practice all practice which can take me higher in search engines [of course never did black hat seo :P] in simple words, did not done anything special to get eyeballs, readers or subscribers. I used to write so lengthy posts so I also thought no one dare to read such long long posts :D until and unless that person in my diehard fan. And I am a mango girl so why should anyone be my fan? :P So as no one was reading except me I just forgotten that I own a blog  [my place] and stopped writing here without any thought.

Now the question is then why am I writing now?

As I said I am manager now, Internet marketing manager. Thanks J [assuming you are congratulating me] me and my bosses got a same thought [we used to get same ideas many times the only thing is they either implement or speak it before I do :D that’s why they are my employer and I’m their employee :D] Coming back to the point, we got an idea to let’s ask the team [staff of my company] to write a blog on our foundation anniversary. By this they will also get the platform to enhance their writing skills & will also get a place to showcase themselves. The selected blog will be published on our company’s blog. With this thought to encourage my colleagues I written a blog post [on another blog which is a technical blog on digital marketing] on blogging as personal branding tool. At time of writing that blog, all of the sudden I reminded that I own a blog & just to check what’s the state is it crawled by Google or not, I just googled the link of my blog and my eyes just came out when I seen the result :o  What I see is my this blog which is so inactive since years & never had any SEO is getting 1000+ traffic. I was like whoa there are readers who are still reading this blog. Apart from this incident I attended an SEO event in my city where a girl came to me, confirmed me that I am the Ash or not and then said I am your fan and I was regularly reading your blog. You were so good. Why did you stop writing it? I was feeling like whoa. So cool J she insisted to write again.

These 2 incidents made me feel like there are people who are reading my blog. They are liking it. Who might wait for my piece of writing. Why? I don’t know but  I feel like if there is someone who is giving me privilege as writer then it is my humble duty to write for them. So I decided to write here again J so for now I can say Ash is back. For how much time? Can’t sy as my life is more busier than before but still as I think it’s my responsibility somewhere to write for my readers I will try to write as regular as possible.

Does this mean I will be in rat race of getting readers & subscribers?

Neah.. I will write for the same reason I was writing before. To express myself, my experiences , my thoughts. I am not going to promote my blog to new reader. Not going to pass links to my known people & not even going to ask old readers to I have started writing again & you can read it. But yes this time I will write for me & the audience who likes to read my views & life around me because as I said somewhere it is my responsibility towards my readers.

I think for today I already made a really very lengthy post & I wonder who is going to dare to read it :D So concluding it here. One last thing I would say before I say bye is If you are actually reading this I would love to hear from you. Because it might make me more aware and excite to write here. It will appreciate me to write more [regular not length posts I know you are scared of reading long] Your comments can tell me my strength & weakness which can make this blog better for you to read. Because as I said when I seen 1000+ readers to blog I feel to start writing here. So if out of 1k readers at least 10 left comment, I might never left writing J by thinking aivey no one is reading. In short, leave your views & thoughts in comment. But ya do not try to leave promotional anchor text as I am also an SEO. When I am not doing promotion of any of my own services, how will I allow you to spam my blog? ;)

So let me say bye for now but I will catch you sonner at same place with something new. This is RJ aashaka signing off. CU Sabba kher. Be happy & try to make others happy.

Valentine day - Journey of Emotions

Valentine day – The day of love is coming. 14^th Feb is celebrated as the day of love to express the feelings to the one you love. It’s a great feeling when someone shows the love and care to you and make you feel so special. So if you have someone in your life or if you are in love with someone then this is the time to express the love and care you have for that person. J  Some people used to give an excude that every day is day of love then why to celebrate this day?? Then my answer for them id in our normal routine life, we don’t get that much time to make a day very special and unforgettable to our be loved. So this is the opportunity or a day to express all the feeling we have for the one we love the most or the one who is our lifetime companion.

I have also planned something very special and romantic for my valentine when I will go for my valentine for the first time J. I am going to ask a whole day from him by romantically proposing him day before valentine day with saying “sweet heart ! I am going to give you my whole life, so can I borrow a day from my life?? Will you please come with me on this valentine day and put fragrances of LOVE on this day of LOVE??” Ah ! how can he say no then?? J he will come of course.

Now in the morning, we will go for the romantic movie and before movie starts, I will present him a white rose with the words of love as “White is the color of peace. This white rose is a symbol of peace and I would like to urge u that in future for my any act or quarrel which makes u angry on me. Remember this white rose and the thing that I can’t bare your anger so forgive me and never be apart for my any mistake I made intentionally or unintentionally. Promise me that u will help me to maintain a peaceful life and love by accepting this white rose <3 ” and we will watch the movie by holding hands and my face on his shoulders J.

Then after movie we will go for a lunch of his choice, before we start a lunch I will gift him an orange rose with the words of love that “The orange rose indicates that u r the only one I am attracted to for the lifetime, and your heart and love is the thing which keep attract me towards u. I promise you that I will be attached to u with the same intensity of love till the last breadth of my life and I would like u to Promise me that you will be always as kind, loving and carrying as you are by accepting this orange rose”

After the lunch, we would go for the long drive my favorite where I put my head on his shoulder and just enjoy the great time of my life with his. In between this romantic long drive, I will present him a yellow rose and says “The yellow rose is the symbol of friendship and friendship is the relation which is based on transparency & trust. I would like you to be your best friend ever where u don't need to hide anything and to whom you can share everything u think and feel about without any hesitation or a thought. It's most important to be a friend before being lifetime companion so I would like u to accept this yellow rose with a promise that u will try to be my lifelong friend and we will share a friendship bond which won’t break in extreme conditions"

Then we will go for the candle light dinner with the romantic music and violin with smoke around and the red heart shaped balloons and roses. Before start of the dinner, I would present him a red rose and would say
I have found in u the love of a life-time
when I fell in love with u
the magic of ur smile touched my heart & made my world an enchanting place
when I fell in love with u
I realized that true happiness wasn't as farfetched and distant as I'd imagined..
when I fell in love with u
I could suddenly hold my head higher knowing that
I carried u and ur presence in my heart
when I fell in love with u
and looked into ur eys,
I could see the fulfillment of all my cherished hopes and dreams
when I fell in love with u
I vowed to fill ur life with perfect joy, fun-filled times and unending love
U r my life, my love...

accept this red rose which is symbol of love, an allow me to keep u in my heart for the lifetime and give me permission to steal ur heart. Will u be my valentine??
:)

after the dinner I will present him a glass heart and a chain with a pedant of heart either with our pics or with half heart chain to him and half heart chain i l keeo tp me and will tell him by holding his hand in my hand that "take care of this heart. I am giving u my heart today and if u break my heart, I am gonna break u :) :D <3"

Then we will leave for the last few moments and most probably go to a river bank, or sea shore or pound or something and walk around for a while by holding each other’s hand together. I l present him few chocolates with the words "The sweetness of these chocolates r not as much as u spread in my life by being part of it. But its jst a gesture of mine to spread some more sweetness in our relation"

At the end when he drops me at my home or our home, Before the journey of emotion over, I present him a pink rose with saying that "Pink rose is symbol of thankfulness and gladness I have for you as u became part of my life or rather i d say u r my life. u r the 1 who always stood by me in all my good and bad time and I have faith u will always be with me ever in all situations. This is the kind gesture to show my gratitude towards u to make my life livable and I m thanking u in advance to be with me ever and never ever live me alone. I love u jaan <3 :) and I know u love me too… Happy valentine day…

How is it?? To romantic na?? but don’t tell it anyone.. ssshhh it’s a secret and surprise for him J

And what’s your surprise?? Share your plan with me Don’t copy my style okay?

               

Life is Going smooth

Hey All

I wish u all r fit and fine. I have not posted since quite long. So though lets write something new. Things are quite steady and stable now.  In June I was facing the worst time of life may be. Ah I even hate to remind those days to myself. As I written after new start, everything is settled down now.

New job is pretty good. As you know I am the PL and TL so it is good. J TLs used to make work their team members and they used to get relax and pass time. That’s something I am also doing and enjoying being official TL in good company.  Not like the one in past where almost every1 or 70% of staff was TL. Duh. :P But as you know I am one of the good TLs so used to be interactive with team and make them learn so many new things and I am also learning  more and more from their questions.  I usually spend my time in client communication, team’s query resolution,  Ranking + traffic + goal increase, new tactic and so on. And side by side having fun on FB and listening music. One more thing in my new office to I am getting max tea. I use to get 2 cup of tea. J My all office boys used to understand that I like to have 2 cup of tea or more quantity. J

Freelancing SEO task is also good. As I get tired not doing much effort in surfing clients. But yes if I get any client then give satisfied work.  I have 1 boy working under me for freelancing task. So in short business life is going good.

Personal life is also good. As I got the most loving and carrying parents of the world, I am having fun. Wright now single so enjoying the freedom. J I used to spend my holidays in sleeping as I love sleeping J It is like if time of waking up is 7:45 AM and if u wake me up at7:42 AM. I will sleep back for 3 more mints as I love my sleep. Using minimum phone. You can say right now the time is same when I love to be alone and love to be with me only. I have no friends to whom I talk every day and feel uneasy if don’t get to talk. No one is there like that. Not have much interest in TV or movie much.  So for others it could be boring but for me it is best time I m having right now. Just doing my job and giving maximum time to myself. J

 Ganesha festival is going on right now and  ganapati bapa moriya is in the air. In our office also we brought ganesha and worship it. It is really good to have vighnaharta. Apart from that my friend s going to be mumma so I am happy for her. J The only problem is the old one AMTS. Bus problem which make me irritate and agry 2 times a day. I am sick of it. :P But have no solution. Auto drivers take 3x money and even after that not coming sometime. And AMTS is same :P I am thinking to get vehicle but what about them who can’t afford vehicle or auto. I wish our Govt give lil attention to AMTS also rather than spending only on BRTS L

Huh so in short right now after quick ups and downs I am living steady, slow and sweet life.  I”ll catch u again here and try t write soon till then b bye. Live the love and feel the life. Live in the moments as u will loss it and never get it back again. J

New Start

1st of July-2011. A complete new start of my life. A new chapter gonna start from today. It is new not just because of new job. but many things or you can say almost everything has been changed. As I said past month was very hard for me. I lost so many things that only I can understand. But for new start I have make everything new in me. You can say I have just restarted my system. I bought new phone, new purse, new tifin box, new dresses :) I must mention that in my lifetime this is for the first time I did these much shopping. Otherwise I used not spend a penny anywhere. Specially for me. I used not even buy water untill it is too much of need. I got nokia 5233 touchscreen phone. It seems quite cool. Everything is new. But memories are still there. :) I am missing those relations and friends which I lost last month unfortunately. :( But there is nothing I can do except moving on so rather then regretting I have opted way of moving on. So that's what I am doing. When I came for an interview in this company I read a slang that was "Don't regret, LEARN and move on" nice one. Because regreting can't do anything so just learn from your mistakes and move on. The situation for me is like God put me on a way and I am supposeto walk on and I am walking on. Honestly I don't know where am I going and whats the destination. I am just walking along. Each time I used to make decision but this time I left decision on God and just walking all the way. I have full trust on God that he wont make any wrong decision for me and lead me toward the happiness, I am

willing to have.

Because as I said I dream of being a successful career woman whene people used to say "good morning mam". Right now I am on that way. I am at senior level I got that job which I was willing to have. In career I am getting everything or almost everything I wanted to have. But as we used to say man's desires are endless. That is happeming to me. Now that sleeping girl inside me has waken up somewhere and has started feeling to have someone special in life with whom I can share evrything. My happiness, sadness, anger, love, everything. I am feelingthe emtiness somewhere. I want that shoulder where I can put my head and get relaxed. I am missing those arms who hold me tight and say "hey sweety don't u worry, I m wid u forever." Yeah I am missing my dreamboy at this stage and I wish I get him sooner in my life. I am not looking for a film star. I just want a simple, sober, well educated and well cultured boy with courage to hold my hand in any situation. I have that guts to fight against the situation but my man need to have at least that dare that he can stand by me at extreme situation. Well I have left this task to my parents so I am not worrying much for this. They will find the best match for me. You also pray for me that I get my prince charming asap. If I get him in this year, I would like to get engaged on 11-11-11 :)

But right now i am starting a new chapter and pretty exited and bit nervous as well. I am willing to get new work, friends and so on. But I wish I get goodie goodie things there. :)

Quite long post it is. right.. Let's say bye for now. I am going for now and catch you soon here. Though have busy schedules, I"ll try to write regularly. Till then Be happy and try to make others happy :)